What is National Coming Out Day?
National Coming Out Day was founded by Robert Eichberg and Jean O'Leary on October 11, 1988 in celebration of the second gay march in Washington D.C. a year earlier. The purpose of the march and of National Coming Out Day is to promote government and public awareness of gay, bisexual, lesbian and transgender rights and to celebrate homosexuality.
What does it mean to "come out"?
Coming out is the process of personally accepting your homosexuality and disclosing it to family, co-workers and friends. Coming out is different for every gay or bisexual person. Some experience a lot of pain and anguish while for others acceptance is a joyous time. It's perfectly normal to experience fear, doubt, loneliness, anger and even depression. Try to surround yourself with others that may be going through the same transition or who have already come out. They can be a great support network. If you don't have any gay friends or don't know anyone else coming out, there are discussion forums that have plenty of positive influences.
For me, "coming out" is a process of self-discovery, self-acceptance and self-disclosure of who you are. In that sense, we all have a coming out...we all have secrets. I hope that this doesn't distract from the importance of National Coming Out Day for the GLBT community. But, really we all have something that holds us back from being who you genuinely are...a load that needs to be heard. Mine was my abuse. What holds you back from just being who you are?
For me, "coming out" is a process of self-discovery, self-acceptance and self-disclosure of who you are. In that sense, we all have a coming out...we all have secrets. I hope that this doesn't distract from the importance of National Coming Out Day for the GLBT community. But, really we all have something that holds us back from being who you genuinely are...a load that needs to be heard. Mine was my abuse. What holds you back from just being who you are?
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