tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post7684666711423823809..comments2023-09-28T04:27:38.699-07:00Comments on Clinically Clueless: Feeling overwhelmed ~ Gap in TimeCluelesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-15419501856092086672008-08-21T17:51:00.000-07:002008-08-21T17:51:00.000-07:00Dano,Thank you for visiting my blog and leaving a ...Dano,<BR/><BR/>Thank you for visiting my blog and leaving a comment. I really appreciate what you said, but it is so hard...but, not impossible. Thank you for your kind and encouraging words.Cluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-76484631821006043632008-08-21T16:51:00.000-07:002008-08-21T16:51:00.000-07:00Sweetie,I understand your shame, but it is not you...Sweetie,<BR/><BR/>I understand your shame, but it is not yours to hold on to. The shame belongs to your mother, father, step-father and all the others that wounded you so deeply.<BR/><BR/>When we have been abused by who are closest to us, we learn some awful coping skills to help us survive.<BR/><BR/>We float above the sexual abuse and disassociate from the horror, losing ourselves in more ways kwhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02718969376533836939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-58043398924559769072008-08-14T20:37:00.000-07:002008-08-14T20:37:00.000-07:00Thank you!!!Thank you!!!Cluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-27242102419287941742008-08-14T19:07:00.000-07:002008-08-14T19:07:00.000-07:00Just popped in to say hellow! I'm taking a short b...Just popped in to say hellow! I'm taking a short break from my online classes. to check in with my blogging friend. <BR/>I have heard many times in my A.A. meetings that a problem shared is a problem cut into half. by shareing your pain you are giving up a part of it and healing. I know it is a long progress. I'm still healing my self. <BR/>Just remember we ale all here for you. Big Time Hugs andMike Golchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14472496241893921107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-89975926758324681902008-08-14T14:07:00.000-07:002008-08-14T14:07:00.000-07:00@ash. Yes, that has been a very supportive relatio...@ash. Yes, that has been a very supportive relationship and I am very thankful. Thank you for the embrace.<BR/><BR/>@drifter. Thank you for your understanding.<BR/><BR/>@Tamara. Thank you for the hugs. I am really glad that my blog helps others. It also helps me, but is painful. I have been having difficulty since before the BPD series. It just heightened things a bit.<BR/><BR/>@tempy. ThankCluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-73438148056970648052008-08-14T13:27:00.000-07:002008-08-14T13:27:00.000-07:00Going through all that you did, your voice was nev...Going through all that you did, your voice was never heard and all you had was the ability to express that pain through action. You don't deserve shame, you deserve compassion and empathy and people to sit next to you and hold your hand as you learn the words to go with your pain. <BR/><BR/>You survived, and now you are healing. That deserves more than words could ever express.Tempyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13727040330385645404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-12260939051266386302008-08-14T12:03:00.000-07:002008-08-14T12:03:00.000-07:00(((((Clueless)))))I so respect and admire you. Th...(((((Clueless)))))<BR/><BR/>I so respect and admire you. The way you share your darkest moments on your blog is beyond courageous. Not many of us can look at ourselves that closely and then admit what we see in public. <BR/><BR/>My T, upon hearing your story, said you were doing amazingly well to be healing from BPD the way you are. I agree.<BR/><BR/>I am so glad you did the borderline seriesTamara (TC) Stapleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00633350990983632539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-434139149691818932008-08-14T09:50:00.000-07:002008-08-14T09:50:00.000-07:00There is so much pain in this post. I can understa...There is so much pain in this post. I can understand the self-injury. When I was young and involved in an abusive relationship I used to cut. Sometimes it's the only way we know how to deal with the pain and confusion.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03634190384284402700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-5707522875025267072008-08-14T08:56:00.000-07:002008-08-14T08:56:00.000-07:00I am so thankful for your relationship with CK. ...I am so thankful for your relationship with CK. What a wonderful friend you've found!!<BR/><BR/>You are not judged here. Only embraced!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-83508545777752294972008-08-14T07:49:00.000-07:002008-08-14T07:49:00.000-07:00CK,You made me cry!! All I can muster up to say i...CK,<BR/><BR/>You made me cry!! All I can muster up to say is "thank you!."<BR/><BR/>ccCluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-79195819633264909032008-08-14T07:24:00.000-07:002008-08-14T07:24:00.000-07:00*big, gentle hugs*I'm sorry you had to go through ...*big, gentle hugs*<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry you had to go through all that pain, CC - and I'm not really referring to the self-harm. <BR/><BR/>You have nothing to be ashamed of, though I can understand the shame all the same. You did what you had to do to cope with truly horrific circumstances, and the fact that you are alive today and healing is a miracle. <BR/><BR/>You are here, though and you are Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com