tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post3391667402859741639..comments2023-09-28T04:27:38.699-07:00Comments on Clinically Clueless: It Sucks To Be Borderline!!Cluelesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-1713585342278063532011-03-12T04:19:14.392-08:002011-03-12T04:19:14.392-08:00Thanks for visiting and leaving a comment Anon.
...Thanks for visiting and leaving a comment Anon. <br /><br />How about I am a person with a borderline personality disorder. Sorry, but it bugs me because bordeline is a disorder/illness and does not define you just like if you had cancer. You wouldn't say, "I am cancer." Okay enough of my soap box. Bipolar is often given, but it is the wrong diagnosis...it can be confusing, but Cluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-89698997297483842582011-03-08T13:07:17.328-08:002011-03-08T13:07:17.328-08:00I am borderline. It's only been lately that I ...I am borderline. It's only been lately that I have discovered what is wrong with me because i have my 'attempts' because of my emotions and manic or bipolar just didn't fit that category. I been like this because I get social rejection because of my aspergers disorder I think that's the main causeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-33543998030303007512010-10-16T08:06:32.678-07:002010-10-16T08:06:32.678-07:00Patricia,
Thank you. When I found this video, it ...Patricia,<br /><br />Thank you. When I found this video, it fit so perfectly!!Cluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-14126428610617724652010-10-15T13:54:20.551-07:002010-10-15T13:54:20.551-07:00Clueless, thanks so much for sharing this, especia...Clueless, thanks so much for sharing this, especially the video. The video explains Borderline Personality Disorder so well. I feel some of those things. I can only imagine the Hell of feeling all of them over and over again with no peace in sight. As the video says, you are truly a courageous, beautiful woman.Patricia Singletonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14114250171020836470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-85031359974670900252010-09-05T05:32:14.184-07:002010-09-05T05:32:14.184-07:00Hi Ana,
I'm glad that this post helped you. T...Hi Ana,<br /><br />I'm glad that this post helped you. That was my hope especially because I'm a bit embarrassed about my behavior.<br /><br />A good psychiatrist will go by treating the symptoms and not the diagnosis. I believe that medications can be helpful...I know that I need them, for now. My psychiatrist's goal is for me to not have to take any.<br /><br />I don't like Cluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-16172221306864937472010-09-05T01:36:12.764-07:002010-09-05T01:36:12.764-07:00Thanks for sharing CC.
It helped me understanding ...Thanks for sharing CC.<br />It helped me understanding a friend of mine. I knew that "neurosis" was not the right word because I'm neurotic, I have no problems with this label because it has nothing to do with psychiatry and we must be treated with therapy and no meds.<br />That is why DSM took the word of any diagnostic...<br />Anyway...<br />I thought this person had another kind Anahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05742171327602935061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-72844303766184430362010-08-31T04:39:47.375-07:002010-08-31T04:39:47.375-07:00Evan,
I do indeed have a mature therapist who is ...Evan,<br /><br />I do indeed have a mature therapist who is willing to share his "mistakes." I definitely see the long term benefits.<br /><br />Lisa,<br /><br />Well said!!! :-)Cluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-85818529833030914052010-08-30T19:13:24.316-07:002010-08-30T19:13:24.316-07:00CC, i discovered the same thing about my therapist...CC, i discovered the same thing about my therapist. I had to use a lot of mindfullness skills to not completely freak out on her. I had to..it was hard...but realizing they are human i think is a step in a good direction.<br /><br />I'm glad things got worked out and yes, being borderline SUCKS and i loved that video. thanks for sharing it.<br /><br />xoxo<br />-LisaLisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08299345300291588030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-15734100616260371142010-08-30T17:44:56.754-07:002010-08-30T17:44:56.754-07:00It sounds like you have a very mature therapist. ...It sounds like you have a very mature therapist. I hope that over the long-term you can see benefits.Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13355215688351759230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-49586934856751928942010-08-30T07:47:50.368-07:002010-08-30T07:47:50.368-07:00Shen,
Thank you for sharing so personally in your...Shen,<br /><br />Thank you for sharing so personally in your comment. Oh, do I feel for you with your therapist being away. For me, even though cognitively I understand that I am not being abandoned or that he is intentionally hurting me, my feelings do not match.<br /><br />If you are able to do it for others, eventually you can do it for myself. My therapist says that it is in me already and I Cluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-40750956950125110232010-08-30T07:34:13.379-07:002010-08-30T07:34:13.379-07:00Yes... therapists are human. I've discovered t...Yes... therapists are human. I've discovered that my therapist can be hurt by my comments when I am out of control. That's really hard, too. I feel hurt, lash out, and then she feels hurt. I'm still not certain she should have told me that... it is making it hard to be who I need to be when I'm worrying about her feelings.<br /><br />I too am in the middle of some heavy-duty Shenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16635993168913490929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-7371230428143788602010-08-30T06:05:59.059-07:002010-08-30T06:05:59.059-07:00JBR,
Thank you for the compliment. My hope in sha...JBR,<br /><br />Thank you for the compliment. My hope in sharing such things is that others will learn of not think that they are "crazy." I felt the same way when my parents divorced.<br /><br />Yes, the video will go up this week. Thanks again for your support.<br /><br />Blessings,<br />CC<br /><br />NOS,<br /><br />Yes, it has taken me a long time to be able to do what I did and Cluelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04133271403456164632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-71855980130278697852010-08-30T05:13:00.345-07:002010-08-30T05:13:00.345-07:00I'm glad you got things straightened out with ...I'm glad you got things straightened out with your therapist. A therapeutic relationship is hard to come by and even though you were upset with him I'm glad you were able to work through it. That's hard to do!<br /><br />Also, a very powerful video. I forgot about that song.<br /><br />Wishing you well,<br />NOSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8131937402880667955.post-34564272704613082352010-08-30T03:45:59.718-07:002010-08-30T03:45:59.718-07:00CC what an insightful post. I even learned someth...CC what an insightful post. I even learned something from what you shared as well. I suffer from being rejected. My father was not there for me either due to alcohol and then when my parents divorced did not see much of him. When I did he made it clear that at times I felt I was some kind of burden to him.<br /><br />Glad you were able to see face to face your t. Get things straighten out.Just Be Realhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15815210059310140144noreply@blogger.com